Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain,
"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive."
I really like this technique. It makes a lot of sense and its self explanatory. If you want someones attention don't be rude and mean to them. Be kind. If you need something ask politely. Take in consideration the way they feel. Work towards if it's someone you like or someone important in school or job.
I really like this technique. It makes a lot of sense and its self explanatory. If you want someones attention don't be rude and mean to them. Be kind. If you need something ask politely. Take in consideration the way they feel. Work towards if it's someone you like or someone important in school or job.
Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation
"The big secret in dealing with people"
Honestly im having a hard time understanding this technique. I think it means to always be honest with people. Never be mean and say something rude. Try to find the nicest way to say and if you can't then help them fix it. Appreciate what they for you. Take in consideration their feelings. Be a good honest person. Always give assistance and feedback. Let them know that you care for them if you
"As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the
highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them."
- John F, Kennedy
Technique 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want.
"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot, walks a lonely way."
I don't get this at all. It's hard to understand. I think it means to be motivated by others. It can also mean to have a certain motivation. Have someone who supports you or will always be there for you. It can also mean to be interested in someone and talk to them. Get to know them.
Final Reflection:
In all honesty I didn't really like these techniques in dealing with people. These were pretty hard to make sense of except for the first one. I don't think these will really help me. Although, I do really like the message/concept of the first one. I think its true if you want something don't force it to come to you. Wait and work towards getting. You don't deserve anything. You only deserve the things you worked for. Don't rush or force something. Work towards them. Be kind, helpful, and polite. Don't be mean to them are an a hole to impress them be honest and sincere. I can apply this technique in every day life.
Final Reflection:
In all honesty I didn't really like these techniques in dealing with people. These were pretty hard to make sense of except for the first one. I don't think these will really help me. Although, I do really like the message/concept of the first one. I think its true if you want something don't force it to come to you. Wait and work towards getting. You don't deserve anything. You only deserve the things you worked for. Don't rush or force something. Work towards them. Be kind, helpful, and polite. Don't be mean to them are an a hole to impress them be honest and sincere. I can apply this technique in every day life.
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