7 Habits of Highly Affected People

Habit 1:

Habit 1: Be Proactive

"Habit 1 is key to unlocking all the other habits and that's why it comes first. It says, "I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I'm responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver's seat of my destiny, not just a passenger."

   I think this thing is pretty self explanatory. You have to know what you want in order to achieve it. You have to go get it. Work hard for it don't wait for it. What you earned is what you worked for. You have to take control. Do and accomplish. Keep on working hard. Never give up because you may never how close you are to achieving what you want. If you want to win you have to work harder than the rest. Always put in 110% and keep trying. Work towards what you wan that is the only way of getting it. Don't be scared of taking chances.

"I like to encourage people to realize that any action is a good action if it's proactive and there is positive intent behind it."

- Michael J. Fox

Habit 2: Begin with the end in mind 

"Control your own destiny or someone else will."

   I think this means to start off think with a positive outcome. Be confident in yourself. Think of the good instead of the bad. You should  be able to control the outcome of things. Don't let others tell you you're doing wrong if you know your doing the right thing. You should have an idea of where you want end up in the future and work towards it. If you don't know you want how can you start achieving goals. For example if you have a match or game you should be positive and think you're going to win. At least go hard and give it all you got. Then keep on working hard to achieve better.

"It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves."

-William Shakespeare

Habit 3: Put First Things First

"Organize an execute around priorities"

   Make sure you put the things that matter to you most as your priority. Always put them first. Others can wait. You have to make sure you keep on working towards them. Always know your goal is. If you don't have or know what your goals are then you will never be able accomplish anything. Put the important things first like for example school. When you get home do your homework and then you can start doing other things like watch tv, etc. Always your priorities first. Work towards them and accomplish them

"Effective leadership is putting first things first. Effective management is discipline, carrying it out."

Stephan Covey

Habit 4: Think Win-Win

"Think win-win or no deal"

    I think this is really self explanatory. It's just saying if you're going to do something make sure you always accomplish it. If you're going to do something do it right. If not don't even bother to it. Always think you are going to do the best and end up accomplishing what you want. For example in a sport let's say you have a match or game always have the mindset of winning and if not at least try your best so that next time you can win. Failure is not an option. Always do better and try your best. Achieve for greater never be fine with where you are at.

"Music reality shows provide a platform to people who have talent and gives them visibility and exposure. It is a win-win situation for participants."

Shreya Ghoshal

Habit 5: Seek First to Understand then to be Understood

"Diagnose before you prescribe"

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Habit 6: Synergize
The whole is greater than the sum of its part (1+1=3)


    Synergize is the habit of creative cooperation. It is teamwork, open-mindedness, and the adventure of finding new solutions to old problems. But it doesn't just happen on its own. It's a process, and through that process, people bring all their personal experience and expertise to the table. This means that you are stronger together than alone. For example with classwork if you work with your partners the work should be easier. You guys are helping each other and getting the work done faster.




Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw
Four Dimensions of Self-Renewal: Physical, Mental, Spiritual, Social/Emotional

    I don't get what this is trying to say to be honest. It's a bit confusing. I think it means to be prepared. How can you cut wood if the saw isn't sharpened. In order to d something yo have to be prepared for it. For example if you have a test you have to study or really know the topic in order to do very well. Sharpen the saw before cutting the wood. Be prepared practice strategist before doing. You have to know what you want and work towards it in order to accomplish.




Reflection: The 7 habits of highly effective people I think are really good and are easy to apply. Anybody can do it and use it. These habits are very motivational and inspiring. Always out your goals first. Then later you'll have time for other stuff. You control your destiny be proactive and get things done. Always be prepared in ready to do your best. Always have positive attitude and do the best you can.

Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain,

"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive."

   I really like this technique. It makes a lot of sense and its self explanatory. If you want someones attention don't be rude and mean to them. Be kind. If you need something ask politely. Take in consideration the way they feel. Work towards if it's someone you like or someone important in school or job. 

Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation

"The big secret in dealing with people"

    Honestly im having a hard time understanding this technique. I think it means to always be honest with people. Never be mean and say something rude. Try to find the nicest way to say and if you can't then help them fix it. Appreciate what they for you. Take in consideration their feelings. Be a good honest person. Always give assistance and feedback. Let them know that you care for them if you

really do.

"As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them."

- John F, Kennedy

Technique 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want. 

"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot, walks a lonely way."

    

    I don't get this at all. It's hard to understand. I think it means to be motivated by others. It can also mean to have a certain motivation. Have someone who supports you or will always be there for you. It can also mean to be interested in someone and talk to them. Get to know them.


Final Reflection:

   In all honesty I didn't really like these techniques in dealing with people. These were pretty hard to make sense of except for the first one. I don't think these will really help me. Although, I do really like the message/concept of the first one. I think its true if you want something don't force it to come to you. Wait and work towards getting. You don't deserve anything. You only deserve the things you worked for. Don't rush or force something. Work towards them. Be kind, helpful, and polite. Don't be mean to them are an a hole to impress them be honest and sincere. I can apply this technique in every day life.

    I had a really good winter break. During my break i spend a lot of time with my girlfriend. We went out to eat a lot. We went to Olive Gardens, Ruby's dinner, The Habbit burger grill, Wink Stop, Starbucks, and she came over to eat at my house a few times. We went to the theaters, to the mall, citadel, we spent Christmas and Christmas eve together. The only day i didn't see her was New Years eve which was pretty sad but i got to see her on New years. Also I was going to practice a lot and i went two 2 day tournaments. I did ok but could've done better next time. My girlfriend came to see me Sunday and we walked to and from practice together. I also went bowling and ice skating for my friends birthday.